My husband is living with his mistress. He says he loves her. She is 29, he is 58 and a great grandfather by his first maraige and father to our 19 year old. He wants a divorce. I believe marriage is better or worse, you work through your problems and stay together making things better. I have forgiven him, but he will not return home. He says he wants to do what he wants to do. I love him. I want my husband and family. I want to end the curse of divorce that has gone through at least three generations of his family, so that it does not affect our son’s future. Please ask God to save him from himself, the mistress and to save our marriage. Please ask him to do whatever changes God feels are necessary for me to be the best wife, mother and person I can be. Please ask God to work quickly on this, it has been going on a while and I can’t help but sense she will get pregnant to try and trap him, dooming our own marriage.