Hi Frieda,
We will pray for you but you should read these and they will explain a lot to you and
https://missionariesofprayer.org/2012/09/source-curses-generational-curses-passed/
https://missionariesofprayer.org/2015/04/prayer-against-a-familiar-spirit-and-monitoring-spirits/
Don’t lose heart! You’re not too old for God to turn things around in your family and your personal life.
God Bless