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I recently got very disappointed and heart broken. for about 2 weeks i drowned myself in tears and i began to lose my faith in the Lord.
i was in a relationship with a guy who was supposed to marry me,you can say i was engaged. i would pray for him and our relationship and my parents and family knew about him. he just woke up one day and decided that he didn’t want to be with me anymore and just recently i realized that he had started talking to his ex lover of which i was broken.
i cried to God and i didnt understand why such was happening to me.
i ask that you may help me pray for a healing and that i may still look to the Lord even in these times. help me also to pray for a man that will love and cherish me, God fearing and wont disappoint me like the previous one and also that i may have the patience to wait on the Lord and accept that everything happens for a reason. -
Wow Diana a beautiful and brave handmaiden of the Lord.
A similar situation happened to me in my early years as a christian. Yes it hurts, but you will heal.
The fact that you want to still look to the Lord in these times, and desire a Godly man, and to be patient in your hurt, show the desire to put God first, and to walk in faith. God will reward your faithfulness.
By the way God knows all. Down the track you will see the hand of God in this situation.
If your fiance went off with his ex lover as you said, that would be quite a shock. The way he went about it would also cause shock and trauma, and feelings of rejection.
I break these off you right now in the name of Jesus.Lover……that means he was sleeping with her ??
What about you. We’re you involved sexually before marriage ?(sorry l need to ask).You will need to repent and ask God to forgive you if that is the case, and also cut off ungodly soul ties to him as well.
Even if you weren’t active sexually with him, you need to cut off ungodly soul ties to him, and ask God to restore back to you the broken pieces of your soul.
(See 1 John 1:9 ).
Don’t come under condemnation by the enemy, but rather come out of agreement with him, by verbalising that you come out of agreement with his lies.You are a child of God. God loves you.
Coming out of agreement with the lies of rejection etc..and cutting off soul ties,
you will be amazed that this will make a difference.With your decision firm, keep trusting God to bring things to pass.
As for the guy, forgive him and what he did. This is a choice not an emotional decision on your behalf.
By faith forgive him, and the other lady involved, and pray for him. God will avenge you.Let the Holy spirit minister to you about it, and give over to him, (the Holy Spirit) what he asks of you, emotional trauma etc Trust him with your heart, He knows how to make things better.
Marriage is a BIG DEAL, and waiting for the one is important. Trust God and be patient. Easier said than done l know…but you can do it. Lose yourself in the love Jesus has for you.
As l said you will look back and see God’s hand and things will make sense. God hasn’t let you down, if He allows things, there had to be a reason, and it’s not always evident at the time.
People in general can let us down, this includes our husbands. They can disappoint us, but in the context of your situation, you want a guy who truely values you as…
You are valuable! And rightly so.Enjoy deepening your relationship with the Lord, out of that wholeness will come a more foundational platform for marriage.
Keep digging up treasure in the word of God, and believe what God says about you, your value and worth.Blessings Sue.
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