Hi Cynthia,
l can relate to the pain and anguish you would be feeling.
It is not very nice to be cheated on, and whem it involves kids and custody, it can feel overwhelming.

I want to encourage you that God is right in the midst of the mess. It may seem that He is distant and doesn’t care according to the facts, but the TRUTH is He answers prayer and works things out for our good, for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose…Romans 8:28. because He loves us with a jealous love. YOU ARE AS A PEARL OF GREAT VALUE…..He gave everything He had for you.

We need to ask Him into the situation, and give Him permission to do so. He will work it out and bring healing, and He desires for your soul (emotions) to be in health, remember Jesus came to give us life, and life more abundant, it’s the devil who comes to steal, kill and destroy. John 10:10 but Jesus destroyed the devil and His works through the victory on the cross.(yeeha)

When Jesus died on the cross it was He who took our pain and our sorrow on the cross in His own body on that cross, so that you don’t have to bare the burden of the weight of it. Isaiah 53 A great exchange… rags to riches.

As Christians we still feel pain and sorrow, i.e emotions, but the good fight of faith is to BELIEVE what God says, instead of what the situation (or our emotions) wants to dictate to us. And we learn to do that on a day by day basis with His help. He wants us to walk in the victory He has ALREADY won for us. He will help us.

And as He brings the healing, allow Him to do so. He can show us an area He would like to heal through the Holy Spirit.
This can feel scary and uncertain at times as it’s close to our heart i.e emotions, but God has your best interest at heart. (Taking out a splinter can hurt, but then comes the healing). You can trust Him, it’s o.k.

One important thing to remember is that God loves you and cares about you deeply, your children are a gift from God, and He loves them more than we ever could.
He will NEVER leave you nor forsake you.!
He is the only one that has the power to heal hearts and sort things out, we need to trust Him as our rock and our fortress to do so.

If you have invited Jesus into your life as your personal saviour, l encourage you to pour out your feelings to Him, and leave them at the foot of the cross. See yourself hand them over to Him. If you haven’t already done so.
l encourage you to ask God to be the Lord of your life and bring His kingdom into your life and heart if you haven’t already done so. And become His child and therefore heir to His provision in His promises through Jesus Christ, and He will look after you and heal your life. Then pour out your concerns to Him.

Then you need to forgive those that have wronged you, which is a choice, not an emotional response. It also doesn’t parden them from the wrong that they have done, but it releases you from the effects of unforgiveness, as by faith you are trusting God to deal with them, and to not sort it out yourself.
Revenge is mine sayeth the Lord, l will repay.
Let Him do it.

Do you have a trusted Christian friend or Pastor you can pray with if you need extra emotional support ? someone who believes in God’s word of provision and promise ?

Bottom line God cares, Jesus died to provide the healing needed.
Encourage yourself in reading God’s promises on the situation, google scriptures for healing etc, who you are in Christ etc,

Keep speaking out HIS TRUTH with HIS WORD out of your own mouth, and don’t give up.
Faith is not based on our emotions which fluctuate, But on His word which is established in heaven, and won’t change.

Joyce Meyer and Derek Prince have You Tube teaching that will encourage you. Find one that ministers to you at this time.
You are NOT ALONE and this too shall pass !

Don’t give up, keep believing God and He will bring it to pass. Get prayer as you need it, pour out your heart to God and keep trusting Him and His word, and speak out His words into your situation (Derek Prince book prayers and proclamations)

That’s all l feel to say at this time.
Blessings to you. I will pray for you.
Sue.