I’ve been having multiple dreams about white cabinetry and decoration. The background is this: I broke off a relationship with someone for what I still think were good reasons. He started seeing someone else while still seeing me. He didn’t tell me for months that he was also seeing someone else and when he did, I was first happy that he’d met someone. But soon red flags started going up. She appeared to have no interest in actually taking care of him or his children or being there for them. In fact, I was still doing that for quite a time.

She told him she was returning to her Christian faith. It turns out she’s actually running a program promoting many occult practices. My guess is that he didn’t know that when he married her. And he’s now semi ‘white-washed’ that with me, telling me her Christian faith is real and can somehow co-exist with this business she’s running.

The first two dreams involved me being invited into their home. In one, she’s decorated a sun room beautifully in white furniture, white cushions, lots of white. In another dream, I’m in their kitchen and see she’s painted all her cabinets white, some with pale ‘Norse’ flavored paintings on them. But the overwhelming feeling is of WHITE.

The third dream deviates in that I’m now walking into a new home of my own and I notice the cabinetry is all white, except for one light brown cabinet door. It jumped out at me that now the décor all in white was mine. I particularly noticed in the dream that the sink was raised too high for comfort and I would have to fix that. In real life, he did put in my new kitchen sink for me.

Thoughts on the significance of the white décor and white cabinetry?