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My husband and I have been separated for 13-14 months. Most of my dreams about him in the past were usually about him wanting to be back with me but being uneasy and discomforting because I knew he was unrepentant and it was all fake. In this dream me him and the mistress were in this house in the middle of nowhere like a dessert. I seemed to be trying to get my husband to see that this woman was fake and not who he saw her as. All her inflated image baring was literally deflated. Her BBL gone etc she was lying about having surgery despite the characteristic scars.
The weird part was that I kissed my husband in front of her which felt weird because I know he committed adultery with her and was trying to “court” this woman despite us still being married. I felt the reason I kissed him and touched his face was so he could remember who I was. Like his wife of youth. I left that place and shortly after my husband called me telling me he missed me. I was shocked and disbelief. It was weird also because this woman was trying to seduce him all the while why I was there like she had no shame he was married. He often calls me his exwife but we are still married and we never have even talked our separation happened by way of a no contact order and so he just continued living in our marital home while I had to leave. And he brought this woman into our marriage bed and gave her the keys to my house. I’m trying to following God and I want to know his will for my life and this dream confused me because I have not had any desires for my husband for about 2 years + as a result of the abuse I suffered. -
hello,
There is undoubtedly soul ties with your ex due to your having been married. I do not know if you still think about your husband (i.e. what was, or would’ve, could’ve, should’ve) or if you have bitterness or unforgiveness still in your heart due to your husband’s infidelity but I believe that you need to go to the Lord about this. It is common to still dream about an ex after a breakup. Healing takes time. Bring all of your concerns and issues (nothing is too insignificant or too mundane or too great) to the Lord as He cares for you AND He is concerned about what you’re concerned about. He will perfect the things that concern you. God wants to bring complete wholeness to every area of your life. Additionally, He can restore you and give you back that which was lost. He can also bring reconciliation if this is what you are wanting. Only you know what it is that you really want God to do.Blessings
Hope this helps.
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Hello thank you for sharing.
It’s a struggle to know Gods message to me through this when there are endless teachings on marriage and remarriage. The word seems to say you must remain in the separation phase. Therefore I can’t divorce this man. He is unrepentant We have 3 children the separation has been torrid. How does a person cut a soul tie off with their spouse. If godnis saying I have a soul time ok – but we are still married and I’m not in a position to divorce him yet. So is my life on hold while he lives a demonic life. So confusing -
There are several scriptures surrounding divorce. God does hate divorce, that’s why it is always imperative we go to Him regarding marriage etc but it is permitted, as stated in
Matthew 5:32 and 19:9. It implies that if a divorce occurs due to adultery, the innocent party is free to remarry without committing adultery/sin.If you don’t want to get a divorce and want to work it out, it’s your choice. This is something you need to ask God for His guidance and help with. He wants you to be happy and whole either way.
Blessings
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