I have 3 children that I raised up according to God’s word. My son is cold hearted and disrespectful. He’s going off to college but will not mature and take responsibility for his own life. He’s rude and disrespectful. I dont want to be around him after a few minutes. He has managed to puts huge wedge on my marriage with his father. My marriage is isolating and lonely. We have debt mostly due to this son. My daughters are not living their potential either. I’m a total failure as a parent. No friends. No family who cares. I’m overweight. We live in a places we are from, no roots. Very sad and lonely.