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I’ve had this dream almost three months ago and to this day I am still confused
DREAM:
It started with me and a guy that I had feelings for at the time was cuddling on the couch and I was wearing his work vest/jacket. I think we were kissing to but it was mostly cuddling. This dream then shifted to me walking into an office space like room and I went and sat in a chair where an Asian guy was sitting. The dude looked like he was so happy to see me and said ” I’m so glad you’re here. He’s been very sad since you’ve been gone” I’m looking at the guy confused because I had no clue who he was talking about. My eyes then went down to my right hand and on my right hand is what looked like a silver wedding ring and an engagement ring. I looked up and I looked back up at the guy and he said “Christian” and somehow I was in a daze and I said ” Oh, I’m sorry I spaced out for a sec” The guy then smiled and told me that he’s in his office. I get up and walk towards the room behind him not knowing who in the world am I going to see. And it non-other than the man that I had feelings for standing there. he pulled his hand out for me to grab and I look it and for some reason, he wanted to walk me to behind his desk. He was able to walk through to get there but I was only able to get half of my body there. The wall was clear and it looked like there was a medium-size hole and I tried to go through the hole but I got stuck halfway. He tried pulling me to get to where he’s at and I tried pulling too but the other half of my body just wouldn’t move. I think I even said that my thighs are too thick. After a few tries, I gave up and said ” I’m just going to walk around.” So a moved my body around whatever barrier and I moved a little bit close to the walls of the office and I was able to be where he was. He reached out his hand to me and I grabbed it.
END OF DREAM
I assumed that it meant that it was God’s way of telling me that he was the one that I was supposed to marry and that he’s Christian. The thing that confused me the most was the barrier part because I wasn’t sure what this would mean. Fast forward, three months later he ended up hurting me and a lot of other people emotionally. I was so confused cause of that dream and the fact that he was so nice to me and basically made me really happy to where I was falling hard for him. How he hurt me emotionally is that he tried to get other girls to like him and basically made a lot of them uncomfortable and also he has anger and control issues. He didn’t want me to know about this since he knew that I liked him and if I found out what he did, I would not want to meet him someday and go on a date with him ( we met online, in a server that had mostly women, its a long story and yes we have video chatted and seen each other’s faces). I knew that he never really had much experience in relationships so I was willing to make sure he’s comfortable. I forgave him for what he did and all but I was also confused because of how my dream went. I talked with my friend about it and she thinks that either of two things
1) We will break away from each other for a while (Which is what happened) and during that time he will redeem himself and I’ll end up marrying him
2) He was a lesson for me to grow from and I’m getting closer to who I am to marry and his name is ChristianSo for the time being after that stuff happened, He basically left off of the face of the earth social media-wise. I’ve been trying my best to get over him and its slowly getting there, but it’s been hard cause every time I was around him he gave me nothing but peace and made me really happy. Yes, there were some times where he made me upset because I could just tell that he’s hurting on in inside and is lost and I wanted him to let me in because I wanted him to know that he could rely on me for support, but he just didn’t trust me enough. I went on his Facebook page because I wanted to see it and I saw posts from his high school years and I felt like he was acting around me was similar to his behavior on his Facebook posts. We had a lot in common and even if some of our values were a little different, it was enough for us to respect each other opinions. I have prayed for him to find hid purpose in life and for him to redeem himself because I can just feel that he’s hurting or lost. There is almost something that reminds me of him to the point where it’s hard not to. Part of me hopes the first interpretation that my friend had happened but I also hope it doesn’t because the other girls in the server that he was in with me would not like that fact that I took him back regardless if he apologized because they already see him as a horrible person.
This dream just confuses me and I just want to know if anyone has any thoughts on what it could mean and Thank you so much if you can.
PS: we don’t really know why he made a lot of girls in the server uncomfortable, we just assume that it was that since one of my friends thinks that he was an incel but didn’t know it yet and us kicking him out of the server probably just made him become one. But he always claims that he’s fine being alone forever if he was meant to do that but his actions say otherwise.
I’ve looked at so many meanings of the stuff that I saw in my dream and most of it added up to God was warning me that the guy that I liked was going to betray. But the rest of the parts that happened in my dream still confuse me, like how I took his hand after going around the wall. -
Hello Nicole,
I would like to commend you for asking for assistance with your dream as not many would feel comfortable sharing the intimate details that you did. I have read and prayed over your dream a number of times and each time I feel something gets highlighted. I won’t profess to know or give you the interpretation, but feel I should ask you some probing questions and that God is inviting you to spend more time with Him for the full interpretation. Dreams sometimes have multiple layers of interpretation that might take days, months, even years to fully grasp. Sometimes, dreams are manifested as a result of wishful thinking. I feel that your dream is both a reassuring and warning dream. Kindly remember that there is no condemnation for those that are in Christ Jesus. I’m not sure what your relationship with the Lord Jesus is, but I will answer from a Christ-centred perspective.
1) Are there similar habits, actions (i.e., serving something or someone) that you are partaking of that are similar to the guy that you like that might not be pleasing to the Lord?
I ask because you were wearing his work vest and you were both cuddling and query kissing. I’m not saying cuddling and kissing are necessarily wrong but highlighting that the action could suggest “cuddling” something.
2) Do you know the Asian guy featured in your dream or was he a stranger? If so, do you know his name? The meaning of the name might be a clue.
3) Is there someone else that you met/know that you might have feelings for that is a Christian ,prior to meeting this guy that you like?
4) Were you trying to “force” yourself on this guy that you like and please him to the point that you became self-depreciating (your comment of “my thighs are too fat”)?
5) Were there “walls” (metaphorically speaking) that you squeezed through even though you shouldn’t have but you felt it was alright as you were trying to help this guy?
6) Do you happen to remember what time you work up from this dream? If so, you could check scripture that might align to the time.You noticed that you were wearing an engagement and wedding ring on your “right” hand prior to going into the office. You heard the name “Christian.” I’m learning to pay attention to the names that you hear spoken out in a dream.
Perhaps God is reassuring you that that there is an ordained Christian man for you if you will have the “faith” (the ring was on your “right” hand) to believe Him. Yes, his name may or not be literally “Christian.” The action of trying everything in your power to reach that man in your dream, despite the barriers and then finally going around to meet him could indicate that you willingly crossed some walls (not even boundaries in this case) to get to this man.
This dream might be a caution to stay clear of him. Only God can change people, and yes He uses us at times. However, God will never contradict His Word in directions or encouragement that He gives us and our actions in daily living should be in alignment with His teachings and Will. Please be cautious of being overly preoccupied of what others (you mentioned other women on the server) might think. God’s thoughts are what always matter.
I hope this blessed you. I do not know what the future holds for you and this man but I know God holds your future. Please take this to the Holy Spirit for He gives the final and true interpretation as He is the Spirit of Truth. Be encouraged!
Shalom! -
Hi Nicole,
What a beautiful dream. I say this because I believe that this dream represents the Lord being your Beloved and wooing you into a deep relationship with Him (leading you to go away with Him). I believe that the man in the dream represents the Lord and that Him coming to you in the image of someone you have deep affection for represents His desire that you have deep affection for Him in a similar way. Like in the book of Song of Solomon in the Bible, the Lord wants to become your Beloved and you to be His. The cuddling while being married (having on wedding and engagement rings) represents romantic marital (covenant) affection. When we accept Christ into our hearts we enter into a marriage covenant with Him. The man mentioning “Christian” represents the Christian walk that the Lord wants you to live as a Christ Follower. The Asian man represented an angel who had greeted you and was glad to see you and was welcoming you into the Kingdom of God and back into “Christian” fellowship. He (the Lord) was sad when you were gone (away from Him). Wearing the man’s vest represented having put on the Lord’s breastplate of righteousness and you coming into right standing with God. “Office” represents the spiritual office and work (ministry) that the Lord has for you to fulfill. The man (Lord) led you to go away with Him (intimate fellowship). The confusion you had concerning not knowing which man the angel was referring to represents the confusion you had concerning who the man in your dream represented. You walked behind the desk with the Lord. This represents deep intimacy. Removing a barrier between you and Him (going behind the veil). Only half of your body could go though. This represents the division between flesh (carnal nature) and spirit. Only your spirit can abide with Him and not your flesh. He tried to get you to go through a spiritual portal with Him but you got stuck due to having too much of a fleshly (carnal nature). So you went around (took a detour) to meet Him. Although you had to take a detour to meet Him where He was, you made it to Him and He took your hand. I believe the Lord wants you to establish an intimate relationship with Him again. He loves you, misses you and His intimate relationship with you and is waiting for you to come. Blessings.
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