Hello Jessica. I can’t imagine the emotional turmoil of the situation your in.I said a quick prayer for clarity and discernment for you. God knows and sees your pain, and He is always there to give you what you need.
In regards to you dream, have you asked God whether the dream is a soulish or spirit dream? sometimes our souls (governed by emotions) can decieve us into percieving messages that are not from God. The Holy Spirit is the best teacher, as him to reveal the source of the dream (soul/spirit) and ask Him to show you His heart for you and your marriage. One thing God taught me is that no matter the crisis i’m in, He wants to work on my heart first. I pray He directs your path for His glory and gives you the peace and wisdom you need, in Jesus name.