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Hi, Would you please consider praying first for Jay my husband,his heart has hardened towards me & his step kids(my kids),he will not allow me or my kids to even talk to my step kids(his kids)there are 9 kids involved,this is hurting them deeply.He doesn’t reply to any texts or face book messages or phone calls made to his cell or his parents home where he has been living since Oct.31,2015 from me or my kids, We Love & miss all of them so very badly, He has allowed his family to talk him into throwing us away. They have told him that i do not love him or respect him or appreciate all he has done for us. Because I desperately want to be with my husband everyday, he only came home on the weekends when money permitted and it was very rough on me and the kids, it was only suppose to be for 2 months tops during the wait it got to me sometimes to the point that i would get so upset i would yell and say he didn’t love me, he didn’t want to be my husband, and he wasn’t fulfilling his vows. This happened a few times during the 8th months of still waiting to be a family, our last fight through text message was Oct 31.st 2015 do i regret my words yes the harshness of them, i believe i should of told him how i was feeling with more love and respect, I was 100% wrong & i have asked for forgiveness but he is denying me that. Jay has so much pride,stubbornness & hurt in him that he didn’t come home for Thanksgiving or Christmas. we spent it alone. I know the man i married who is a good man , dad and husband who loves us all deeply is still in there. I feel like he is under spiritual attack that is why all the cruelness. Pleas pray for his heart to turn back to God so God can give him a new clean flesh heart and remove the stony one, I know if he can just allow God back in , forgive and trust God our restoration will take care of its self, But please add restoration to the list, open communication for all of us. for God to intervene before Jay files for divorce if he hasn’t already. please pray his family would leave us alone , for God to provide a way for Jay to not be around them So God can talk to Jay and get through. I do not wish any bad upon his family, I wish they would love and accept me but i am treated like a disease but everyone. what i said to Jay was wrong i admit my failure, I tried to be a good wife, i took care of him and the kids, There was no cheating or abuse. other than my horrible words to Jay. I am not proud of my behavior,but please know it was not the real me talking, it was the flesh me who allowed my emotions to get the better of me and ruin my marriage. Thank you either way. God Bless JoAnna
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Praying for you and your marriage Joanna. We pray that the Holy Spirit will take over your tongue and cause you to speak words of life over your marriage and your spouse. If you asked for forgiveness then accept God’s forgiveness. Will pray for your husband to return. In the meantime, here is a prayer for you https://missionariesofprayer.org/2012/03/prayer-restoration-marriage/
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