I am praying for you, I know this is heartbreaking. please pray for my husband Nick the same situation with his secrete girlfriend of 3 years. He done pretty deceiving with ge and out of 16 years I see it started with his infidelity. I never knew until a month ago. It’s broken our family. I’ve been being a mother and he’s been living like a single person lying and saying he’s working. He is not a Christian but I am and his mother is. I’m praying the Holy Spirit convicts him and he comes home, repent and reconcile. I do love him.