Thank you for sharing your dream with us. Please take everything that I share to the Holy Spirit as He Alone gives the accurate interpretation.
First, it is a good thing that you are no longer in that relationship as it was unequally yoked (mismatched shoes), unsafe, there was no protection, and you were relegated to second place.
Second, you need to forgive and God loves a cheerful giver. The reason that nothing was happening when you called the name of Jesus is because this is an issue you need to deal with personally and obey.