Thank you for sharing your dream with us. Please take everything that I share to the Holy Spirit as He Alone gives the accurate interpretation.
I don’t think the dream is negative overall. The lady driving and the colour of the car may represent the Holy Spirit being in control. I’m not clear at this time what the daughter between the driver and your husband represent. The much I feel led to share at this time is that you need to “participate” in either the new “birth/life” of someone or something because it appears that you are hesitant and taking “a back seat.” I’m not clear if the alcoholic drink is negative- it could be a waiter (representing Our Lord Jesus or the Holy Spirit) asking yourself and daughter to “commune” as in “take communion” in something, again, participate. May the Holy Spirit give you clarity, heal your wounds, emotions, and give you the ability to trust again, in Jesus’s Almighty Name, I pray, Amen!