Hello Joe,
Thank you for sharing your dreams with us. Please take everything that I share to the Holy Spirit as He Alone gives the accurate interpretation.
Dream #1: I believe that this might be a vision and represents and actual child as described. She may be sexually and/or physically abused.
Dream #2: I think God decided to use this imagery as it might get your attention better, I’m not sure if you are a farmer or not. There might be three children that might be experiencing what the child in your first dream is going through. These children (I think represented by calves) may appear alright but all is not well.
May the Holy Spirit give you clarity in Jesus’s Almighty Name I pray, Amen!
Shalom!
