One day when you are calm and your husband is in a very good mood ask Him why he doesn’t listen to your advise when it comes to those grand children. Tell him you want the truth.
Here is the hard part…when he answers, don’t say anything else. Don’t give advise or ask anything else. This will give you your answer and it won’t be to change how he feels it will be for you to know how to pray and proceed.
Do you think you can handle the answer without responding? You have to keep this in mind before you ask him the question.
Then you take the answer to your prayer closet, not to him. And, let God handle it from there.
Praying for you Sheila.