Thank you for sharing your dream with us. Please take everything that I share to the Holy Spirit as He Alone gives the accurate interpretation.
This dream appears to be pointing to present but definitely future events. I’m not sure when you had this dream. The first part of your dream could be referring to your future life or a friend’s current situation. Outward appears of some situation is not the reality. There are “defects.” Please pray for protection and courage to fix underlying issues in your lives that may or not be readily apparent.
There appears to be a lack of communication or communication gap either between yourself and your husband, yourself/husband and God. The following: “Then I looked to my right diagonal side and the is a small window( only one in the room) and I saw far away a storm coming when I looked well, I saw a huge pillar of fire behind the storm” appears to be pointing to some storm that will come to your family’s life but God will be with you. The pillar of fire reminds me of God’s Presence when He guided the Israelites in the wilderness after He had rescued them from bondage from the Egyptians. Be encouraged!